Thursday, January 30, 2014

mary van's arrival

Where to begin?!

(I am going to try really hard to keep up with the blog despite being a little busy.  :)  Wish me luck!)

So, let's see.  My due date was January 4 so I decided to make Dec 20 my last day of work to enjoy the holidays and finish getting stuff ready for Mary Van and our new house.  MV was measuring a week ahead in all metrics so I was really hoping she would come early.  But, her Shingler genes kicked in and Jan 4 came and went.  I didn't really want to induce so we kept waiting.  At my 41-week appt, we scheduled an induction for Jan 14.  Wow.  Jan 14 is my birthday and it was also Brad's mom's birthday.  (For those that don't know, Mary Van is named for his mom (she was Mary Jo) and my maiden name (VanSant)).  That would have been really cool to all share a birthday but I was miserable and couldn't imagine waiting 10 days after her due date!  On Jan 11, I started having really bad Braxton-Hicks contractions.  They were not at regular intervals but they were painful and paired with abdominal cramps and back pain.  I called the doctor and the on-call doc (not mine and not my favorite) said 'drink some water and take some tylenol, your body is preparing for Tues (Jan 14).'  Uh, not cool.  But, I followed his advice and felt a little better.  I didn't sleep a wink Saturday night due to the pain but started having regular contractions on Sunday morning at 6:30!!

I will detail Sunday below.  This is mostly for me so I won't bore you anymore.  Here are some pictures!!


Getting cleaned up and her footprints taken


After the epidural, waiting on MV


After her bath in the nursery


All clean!


Getting warmed up


Visitors!


BB and Pap - smitten


William and Liza
Their Maggie will be born in May!


Papa


Aunt Megan


Nana


Monday in our recovery room


Love all that dark hair!


Cuddling


Just chillin'


She sticks her tongue out a lot!


The Women's Center is named after Curly Watson (who delivered more babies than anyone ever or some such) and, ironically, the center was dedicated to him on Jan 14.  Crazy...


Heading home with my most favorite birthday present ever


All loaded up


First car ride


We're home!

We have enjoyed every minute with this little one.  We are overjoyed and overwhelmed with love.  The next post will document our time with her so far!

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Ok, so Sunday.  Again, I had timed contractions all night and noticed they were 20 minutes apart regularly starting at 6:30.  That went to 15 minutes about an hour later and then a few that were 10 minutes apart.  At that time (8 am), I woke Brad up and said 'take the dogs out, feed them and load up the car.  i think this is it!'  We waited around a little while longer and called the doctor again.  He said it sounded like the real thing and that we should head on in to University.  We got there about 10:30 am and checked in.  My contractions were coming every 2-3 minutes and I was three cm dilated.  I was admitted and asked for an epidural immediately.  Ha.  

We had to wait a while for that and the contractions were rough.  Brad and Mom were with me and I was squeezing Brad's hand really hard.  He complained about his thumb needing a hospital room after my contractions.  That didn't go over well with me.  :)  They came in to give me the epidural and my family had to leave.  The epidural went off without a hitch and I was immediately without pain.  About ten minutes later, however, I got very light-headed.  Thank goodness a nurse was there and she immediately laid me back and on my side.  Epidurals can cause your blood pressure to plummet and mine did.  My vision started to go and other nurses ran in the room.  They put me on oxygen, shot some meds in my IV (epinephrine I believe) and I started to feel better.  My BP was 54 over 26, about half what it usually is.  Of course, this affected MV too.  I was really worried because once I came back I couldn't hear her heartbeat on the monitor and they were banging on my bump.  Once the medicine got to her, all was well.  Yikes.

Then, we waited.  For several hours, I just sat in the room and visited with family.  My contractions were about 5 minutes apart and I hadn't dilated much more.  So, my doctor ordered some pitocin to speed things along.  He (not the on-call doctor, thank God) came in that afternoon and broke my water, around 5 maybe?  Of course, MV had already passed her meconium.  Not a huge surprise since I was so far past my due date.  It's not a huge deal but she did have to get cleaned out several times right after birth.

After waiting a few more hours, MV's heart rate started to drop.  This was caused by the pitocin so they turned it down and had me turn from side to side to move her around some.  Then, I got really nauseous!  I was on oxygen and throwing up, all while rolling from side to side.  They turned the epidural down and gave me some zofran to help with nausea.  Of course, I started feeling some pain so they turned the epidural back up.  I had to sit up or the epidural would numb my chest and breathing would be hard.  They finally checked me again at about 7:45 and I was 10 cm dilated.  They had me start pushing but Dr Joseph was still 20 minutes out so I had to stop.  Turns out I was so nauseous because MV had dropped really quickly.  I guess that was a blessing because I only pushed for 30-40 minutes!  MV was here at 8:37 pm.  She was 7 lbs, 14 oz and 20.25 inches long.  I tell ya what, the actual pushing and delivery was one of the easiest things of the day.  Of course I was tired and still on oxygen but I felt no pain and it was pretty quick.  Afterwards, I was coming down from the meds and adrenaline and could not stop shaking.  I mean, violent shakes.  I was so tense and couldn't relax.  That lasted an hour or so before subsiding.  

Then we moved to our recovery room and got to spend quality time with our bundle.  Mom, Dad, Bill, Debbie, Megan, Adi, Sela and Damir were all there to see her in the nursery getting a bath.  Levi and his girlfriend were around earlier but had to leave about 7 to get back to Athens.  The University staff was absolutely wonderful!  We were there until Tuesday noon and were so ready to go home.   

Saturday, December 28, 2013

house update

I am way behind on these updates.  They are finishing the sheet rock this week and then it's on to flooring and cabinets.  I am really hoping we can get in in February before I go back to work.  Fingers crossed!
 
 
foundation
 
from the front right corner, garage in foreground

 
same angle, framing

 
same angle, roofing is being started

 
view from the back
 
this is our favorite.  we will have to bring in more dirt to complete the back yard and pool

 
siding (will be white) is almost done now

 
view as you are driving in
 
due to elevation issues, our front yard is small but back yard will be where we hang out
we are very isolated and have ten acres to ourselves

 
and the crown jewel - the back porch
 
it runs almost the length of the house and is 14 feet deep
we have one sitting area with bolts for a swing, dining will be in the space above
past that is the outdoor kitchen complete with bar
there is a pool room and full bath past that
outdoor fireplace with more seating as well
the steps to the pool will be located in that corner
 
when i get overwhelmed with all we have going on, i picture being out here with an adult beverage and a happy baby after the craziness of masters is over.  it'll be here before we know it!
 
building a house is insane.  we plan to be here forever so i wouldn't want to have anyone else make the decisions but it is never-ending.  thank goodness brad and i are pretty much on the same page with everything.  we have tried to stay in front of most of the decisions so as not to hold up progress, especially since the next few weeks will be crazy.
 
we are so happy with the progress so far and cannot wait to get in!!


lately...

Aside from work, baby-preparing and house-building, here are some other things we have had going on.  :)
 
 
Banjo celebrated her 11th birthday in November.  She'll always be my first daughter.  Sweet, sweet girl.
 
 
Brad, Dad and Levi went quail hunting last week.  They didn't have any luck but had loads of fun.  Tired Levi and Loki.

 
Last weekend, we attended a boot-scootin' Christmas party hosted by the Trotters, Dunstans and Rigsbys.  I went for a little while but Brad had the most fun and rode the mechanical bull a lot.  I can't get the video to upload but will work on that.

 
My last few Garden & Gun food packages.  These are caramels from Shotwell Candy Co (in Memphis I think).  The flavors were salted, beer and pretzels, espresso and bourbon.
 
 
Callie's cheese crisps and bloody mary mix.
 
I also got some coffee but gave that to Dad for Christmas.

 
Per tradition, we decorated sugar cookies with the Shinglers on Christmas Day.  Here is Mary Van in her monogrammed onesie.  :)
 
We had smaller Christmas celebrations this year due to my condition.  We spent Christmas Eve day in Thomson with my family and had Christmas day dinner with the Filipovics.  Bill and Debbie were out of town unfortunately.  However, we enjoyed all the time with family and are so thankful for the season and generosity of them all.

 
At the boot-scootin' Christmas party

 
I hate to miss a chance to dress up.  :)

 
My coworkers threw me a shower a few weeks ago.  It was wonderful!  From the back, you can't even tell I'm preggo.  That's one good thing I can say!

 
MV got lots of goodies for Christmas!  Clothes especially, thank goodness.  Megan and Adi got our family matching shoes.  Brad got some Cole Haans and MV and I got mocs.  So cute.

 
We have already purchased nursery furniture!  I went ahead and got a full suite so that it will grow with her - hopefully.  The store is keeping it until we move.  She has the convertible crib, double dresser with hutch, nightstand and single dresser.  Yay!

 
Work shower food.  Yummy!

 
Work shower gifts.  She racked up on the big items - jumperoo, pack n play and plenty of other essentials.  I will miss my work family but know I will be out there to visit before I return to work in March.

 
Christmas party hosted by the Bowens, Lawrences and two other couples.  This is one of my favorite dresses and it worked great for the cocktail party.

 
We did very few Christmas decorations this year (tree, wreath, candles and cards only) due to the wild pup, arriving baby and putting the house on the market.  Plus lack of time and energy.  Ha.  Brad did the lights by himself and definitely had a Clark Griswald moment.  He got them figured out after the third time.  Ha.


pregnancy at 39 weeks

Well. she is almost here!!  Today makes 39 weeks.  Hard to believe.  We are ready for her to be here but not sure we are ready for everything else.  But, if you waited until you were ready, that time would never come huh?  We are so excited!
 
I seem to have missed a few weeks here and there but here is my best guess as to when these were taken...
 
 
Barefoot and pregnant in the kitchen at 25 weeks.

 
26 weeks

 
27 weeks

 
28 weeks

 
29 weeks
 
(third trimester and one of the few photos taken before work when i actually look decent.)

 
32 weeks
 
I am guessing on this one but I know I missed the 31 weeks photo.  I had a stomach bug.  Let me tell ya, that was rough while being pregnant.  I threw up for 24 hours straight and was comatose for the next 24.  I think this was after that because I guarantee you I lost weight and I don't look much bigger here.  Or it could be 30 weeks.
 
(these next few are guesses.  i didn't realize i missed so many photos.  crap.)

 
33 weeks


35 weeks
 

 
36 weeks

 
38 weeks

 
39 weeks (taken yesterday)
 
Overall, I started feeling better around 26 weeks.  Still not good, mind you, but better.  I still get sick occasionally and have no long-term energy.  I was able to lower my nausea medicine doseage a few months ago.  Heartburn (and other GI issues) and sleeplessness have gotten so much worse lately.  I get up to go to the bathroom at night a lot.  That's fine but then I lay awake for hours thinking of things I need to do.  I got horrible headaches every morning for about a month and a half but those have lessened a little.  Of course, Mary Van is getting so big she is causing me lots of pain too.  My ligaments are super sore and I get shooting pains sometimes.  She's on my sciatic nerve a lot too.  And my ribs.  Oh Lord, my ribs.  They are bruised she has been on them so much lately. 
 
I have only bought maternity jeans (which I love) and leggings (which I hate because they won't stay up most of the time).  I went to Ross and bought some cheap sweater dresses that I didn't mind if they got stretched out.  I just refused to buy other things I wouldn't wear that much.  If these dresses survive fitting over the bump, then great.  If not, not much money lost!  I really haven't had any cravings.  I will see things that sound good and that I think my stomach can handle but nothing weird or out of the ordinary. 
 
People ask me if I have been nesting.  Well, I don't think of it as nesting.  I think of it as getting s$@t done.  Getting ready for a baby is pretty involved!  Now I know (after our childbirth classes) that true nesting is a short-term burst of energy right before you go into labor.  Haven't had that yet!
 
We are hoping she makes her appearance soon.  The pseudo-nursery is ready and our bags are packed.  We go back to the doctor on Monday for a check-up.  There is a chance he will be out of town for the next week which makes me nervous.  At 35 weeks, she weighed 5.5 lbs which puts her right around 7.5-8 lbs at birth.  All her other measurements were right at 35-36 weeks except for her stomach.  That was 33 weeks so she will probably be a little on the lean side. 
 
Wish us luck and keep us in your prayers!!